I recently got into a discussion with friends about crushes. It didn’t take long before everyone started confessing the crazy things they do. Someone mentioned checking their social media more than they’d like to admit. Someone else laughed about rehearsing conversations that would never happen.
Halfway through the conversation, we realized we were all a little ridiculous when it came to crushes.
That’s the fun part about crushes. They can make you act shy when you’re usually confident. Anxious when you’re normally calm. Or busy when you’re actually free.
Teenage crushes and adult crushes feel eerily similar. If you’ve ever wondered whether your behavior is “normal,” keep reading. Chances are you’ve done a few of these things yourself. In fact, if you’re being honest with yourself, you’ve probably done most of them.
35 Relatable Things About Crushes
1. You See Them Out of Nowhere
You’re at work, school, the grocery store, or scrolling through Instagram when suddenly, there they are.
It feels like you’re starting to see them everywhere.
The truth is, you’re simply paying more attention to them. They likely always came into your workplace, took the same classes as you, or followed each other on social media. But now that you have a crush, you suddenly can’t help but notice them.
2. You Analyze Every Conversation You’ve Ever Had
You had the most mundane conversation with your crush, and now you can’t stop thinking about it.
Did they smile at you? Laugh longer than usual? Say something awkward?
Your brain loves to create fantasies out of even the smallest interactions.
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3. You Find Yourself Checking Your Phone Way Too Often
You see that notification pop up on your phone, and for a second, you hope it’s them.
Even if it’s not, you enjoyed that moment of excitement, so you make a habit of checking quite frequently.
4. You Overanalyze Every Text Conversation
Should you reply right away or wait a few hours?
Did you sound too eager? Too lazy? Too formal?
Why aren’t they replying? Did I say something wrong?
Texting turns into a stressful game you never signed up for.
5. You Act Like You Don’t Care
The more you like someone, the harder you may try to act like you don’t care at all.
Don’t get me wrong, people with strong confidence can crush on someone without overthinking. But for a lot of us, we’d rather not appear too desperate.
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6. Their Smile Can Brighten Your Day
Sometimes you’ll be having the worst day, and then you see them for a few seconds, and suddenly you feel better.
It’s crazy how much someone’s smile can mean to you when you have a crush on them.
7. You Imagine Conversations That Will Never Happen
You think about what you would say if you ran into them at the store.
What you would say if they asked you out.
What you would say to make them laugh.
What you would say during your first date.
That random conversation that will probably never happen.
8. You Freaking Care About Your Appearance All of a Sudden
Suddenly you care about your outfit a little bit more. You fix your hair one extra time and hope that when you run into your crush, you look your best.
9. You Learn Every Detail About Their Interests
You know the type of music they listen to. Their favorite movies. The sports they watch. Things they like to do with their friends.
You don’t necessarily know this information to impress your crush. Sometimes you’re just genuinely curious. Other times, you’re trying to find things to talk about with your crush.
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10. You Feel Nervous Around Them
Out of nowhere, you can’t seem to think of anything to say around your crush.
You go blank. Your palms get sweaty. Saying hello feels like you’re giving a speech.
11. You Hope They Like You Too
Everybody checks for signs that their crush might like them back.
A smile. Eye contact for a few seconds too long. An accidental compliment. An unexpected message.
When you have a crush on someone, it feels like these small gestures mean the world.
12. You Smile for No Reason at All
You catch yourself smiling randomly throughout the day.
Then someone asks you what’s wrong, and you instantly lie.
13. They Say Something That Sticks With You for Days
They compliment you.
You laugh at their funny story.
They simply say hello.
Whatever it is they say will replay in your head, and you’ll remember exactly how it made you feel.
14. You Start Catching Small Details About Them
How they laugh.
How their voice sounds when they talk to you.
What they usually wear.
Their favorite coffee order at the local coffee shop.
You start to notice the little things about them that no one else does.
15. You Hope You Run Into Them
Sometimes you take longer routes just in case you see them.
Maybe you go to your favorite coffee shop at the same time as your crush.
Or you visit the gym they usually go to, hoping they’ll be there.
You find ways to see them without actually asking if they want to hang out.
16. You Stalk Their Social Media “Just to Catch Up”
You swear you’re only going to look at one picture.
Next thing you know, you’ve spent the last hour looking through their Instagram from 3 years ago.
17. You Look for Signs in Their Body Language
They leaned in closer to talk to you? BIG DEAL.
They made eye contact for a few seconds too long. MUST mean something.
Their face lit up when you talked to them today. OH MAGIC.
You read too much into the way they act around you.
18. You Become Easier to Jealous
It hurts your feelings when your crush talks to that cute guy or girl at school.
But you’re not even going out with them. Yet you still feel upset.
This happens to the best of us.
19. Small Things Make You Extra Excited
“Good morning.”
Did they really just say hi to me? Today can’t get any better.
If your crush texts you or says hi for no reason, it will always make your day.
20. You Can’t Help but Wonder What They Think of You
Are they attracted to you?
Do they enjoy talking to you?
Do they even know you exist?
Trust me, you will think about this way more than you think.
21. You Practice What You’ll Say to Them
You think of the perfect joke you want to tell them.
The perfect comeback line.
The perfect way to say hi.
Right when you finally see them, you completely blank.
22. You Never Forget Something They Say to You
Your memory is incredible.
You remember what they told you three weeks ago like it was told to you yesterday.
23. You Get Butterflies
Seeing their face. Hearing their voice. Even saying their name makes your stomach flutter.
Getting butterflies is one of the best parts of having a crush.
24. You Wonder If They’re Taken
Like I mentioned before, most people with a crush like to know if their crush is available.
You’ll find yourself thinking about their relationship status more than you’d like to admit.
25. You Feel Happy When They Do Well
Your crush got a promotion at work? Congratulations!
They won an award? Give ’em up!
They reached a goal they’ve been working toward? Amazing!
You’re genuinely happy for your crush when they accomplish something great.
26. Songs Remind You of That Crush
Boy bands are no longer just for teenagers.
Love songs take on a different meaning when your crush comes to mind every time you hear one.
And chances are you know every word to your favorite love song.
27. You Try Your Best to Impress Them
Okay, you don’t go out of your way to be someone you’re not. But you definitely tell that extra funny story to impress your crush.
You start working a little bit harder.
You might even become the life of the party.
We all want to put our best foot forward when we like someone.
28. You Notice When They Notice You
Let’s be real. There isn’t anything better than seeing someone check you out.
When your crush realizes they were looking at you too, it feels like the best compliment.
29. You Get Sad Over Small Things
Plans fall through.
They don’t reply to your text right away.
You talk for two minutes before they have to go.
Trust me, it happens to everyone.
Small letdowns can feel gigantic when you have a crush.
30. You Wonder What Dating Them Would Be Like
You think about what dating your crush would be like.
There’s nothing wrong with letting your mind wander, just don’t let fantasy replace reality.
31. You Become Highly Self Conscious
You notice your laugh is way too loud.
You talk too fast.
Your voice is annoying.
When you start talking to yourself like this, it’s time to snap out of it.
Having a crush can make you hyper aware of your every move.
32. You Look for Opportunities to Talk to Them
“Hey, how was your weekend?”
I know that already, buddy.
But you like them, so you ask anyway.
33. You Hear Their Name and Instantly Perk Up
Ten people could be talking to you about something completely unrelated. But the second you hear your crush’s name, you stop and zone in.
34. You Hope They’re Thinking About You Too
Does your crush wonder about you like you do them?
I hope they do.
Wondering if your crush likes you back is honestly one of the best feelings.
35. You Feel Excited and Terrified All at Once
The thing about crushes is that they make you feel so many emotions.
On one hand, you’re excited about talking to your crush.
On the other, you’re scared they won’t feel the same way.
That excitement mixed with fear is what makes crushes so memorable.
Conclusion
Whether you have your first crush or your 50th crush, they all tend to feel the same. Exciting. Nervous. Happy. Funny. Maybe even a little embarrassing.
Enjoy the feelings and don’t let yourself become consumed by your crush. Having a crush should lift you up and bring joy to your life, not ruin it. The healthiest relationships come from being happy with who you are while getting to know someone else.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is it normal to think about your crush all the time?
Yes! When you have a crush on someone, it’s normal to think about them all the time, especially in the beginning stages of attraction. As long as your constant thoughts about your crush aren’t interfering with your day to day life, you’re good to go.
How do you know if it’s a crush or love?
Crushes are usually attraction based. You like their smile, their personality, or their style. When you love someone, you trust them, spend significant time with them, and get to know them on a deeper level.
Why do crushes make you nervous?
Because there’s always that moment of uncertainty. Will they like me back? Did I say something stupid? Will they think I’m cute? When you have a crush on someone, you want everything to go right. This can cause you to feel nervous.
How long do crushes normally last?
There is no set time frame on how long a crush lasts. Some crushes last a couple of weeks, others can last months.
Should I tell my crush I like them?
As long as the timing feels right and you’re ready for them to know how you feel, tell your crush you like them. You never know, they might feel the exact same way you do. Keeping it all inside will only leave you wondering.
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