Sometime around three years ago, I became fascinated by something almost everybody struggles with at some point or another…figuring out how certain personalities act when they’re into someone.
Ever since that day, I’ve spent hours reading relationship psychology books, studies on personality, and yes…even poured over some heavy textbooks on astrology and the way certain zodiac signs tend to act when they’re emotionally invested in someone.
During my research, I kept finding articles highlighting the confusing way Aquarius men tend to act when they like you.
Been attracted to an Aquarius man before? If so, you’ll know exactly what I’m talking about.
You go from having him wrapped around your finger one second to completely zoning you out the next. It can feel frustrating.
After reading books on relationships, learning about different personality traits of each zodiac sign, and observing how certain men treat women they care about, I’ve come to learn that Aquarius guys are…different.
They like to think for themselves, they’re intellectual, and many have a weird way of dealing with their emotions. But if an Aquarius man likes you, he will almost always show you.
Still wondering if the Aquarius guy in your life has feelings for you? Below are ten telltale signs he does.
10 Clear Signs an Aquarius Man Likes You
1. He Talks to You About Important Stuff
Have you ever noticed that when Aquarius guys like someone, they love to talk?
More specifically, they love to talk about anything that goes beyond normal small talk.
Ideas, theories, opinions. You name it. If it’s something you can over-analyze and discuss from different perspectives, he wants to hear you talk about it.
You’ll find that he wants to have conversations with you about topics like:
- your life goals
- world problems
- future dreams
- philosophical matters
This is because Aquarius men are huge on intellectual compatibility.
If he considers you someone who challenges his mind and picks your brain, that’s a strong indication he likes you.
Read also: 10 Things a Scorpio Man Looks for in a Woman
2. He Tells You His Ideas
Aquarius men are innovators. They come up with strange ideas all the time.
Unique ways of thinking about the world, unusual creative visions, and automatic responses that don’t match their sign generally.
When he starts telling you his ideas and weird thoughts, that’s a sign he trusts you.
Aquarius men aren’t typically going to unload their thoughts and visions on just anybody.
If he consistently shares his creative ideas or inner theories with you, you must mean something special to him.
This ties back to how emotionally open Aquarius men can be in relationships.
They usually don’t open up unless they trust you enough.
Read also: How to Handle Negative Emotions – 10 Tips
3. He Treats You Like a Best Friend
Some signs flirt and try to establish a romantic connection right away.
Aquarius guys don’t typically work like that.
You’ll find that he:
- makes you laugh with jokes
- opens up and shares stories about himself
- spends time with you casually
Aquarius men are all about the friendship.
If he enjoys your company enough to treat you like his best bud, that’s a fantastic sign. When an Aquarius man finds someone he likes, he wants to be around that person. A lot.
If he views you this way, it means you’ve created a strong enough connection for him to want to stay close friends with you.
Romance is often just a natural next step.
This is due to Aquarius men valuing close friendships in their romantic relationships.
4. He Asks About Your Opinion on Things
Like I mentioned before, Aquarius men love to hear what you have to say.
They may be independent thinkers, but they’re also curious about other people’s thoughts.
If he finds himself constantly asking you questions like:
- “What are your thoughts?”
- “How would you do that?”
- “Do you think people can change?”
He wants to know what you think.
When someone actively seeks your opinion on a consistent basis, it means a few things.
But for the most part, it means he’s emotionally interested in you.
Aquarius men have to respect you intellectually before they give their emotions away.
5. He Makes Plans That Include You
Aquarius men love their independence. They’re independent thinkers for a reason.
But if he starts making plans that involve you or asks you to do things with him in the future, he wants you in his life.
He may say things like:
- “Come with us next time.”
- “You should join us.”
- “We should check that place out.”
Including you in his plans is how he invites you into his world.
If he wants to spend more time around you, he’ll find a way to let you spend more time around him.
As I’ve stated before, this all comes down to the level of emotional investment he has in you.
6. His Weird Side Comes Out Around You
Guys with the Aquarius personality are weird.
Not gonna lie.
But they won’t always show you their “out there” personalities right away.
When he feels comfortable expressing himself around you, you start to notice his:
- strange sense of humor
- unusual interests
- odd personality traits
You’ll start to see his true personality shine through when he’s around you.
If someone is willing to let their full self be visible around you, that means they trust you and are likely attracted to you.
This all ties back to the level of emotional comfort he feels around you.
7. He Remembers Things You Tell Him
Aquarius men live in their heads. Always thinking about something.
But if you tell him something important or mention a detail about your life that he brings up weeks later, he was listening.
He remembers what you tell him because he cares enough to pay attention.
Little things like:
- your favorite food
- that story you told him weeks ago
- something important happening to you
are all things Aquarius men will remember if they like you.
He makes a point to remember emotional details you tell him about yourself.
8. He Respects Your Freedom
Ah, the infamous Aquarius man and his love for freedom.
If there’s one thing people never understand about the Aquarius man you’re into, it’s this:
They respect your freedom when they like you.
Sure they need their space (and everyone does), but if he truly cares about you, he won’t try to monopolize your time.
You’re allowed to be as independent as you want to be.
Aquarius people value strong relationship boundaries, and him allowing you to live your life while he lives his is one of those boundaries.
9. He Opens Up to You Emotionally Over Time
This tip can’t be reiterated enough.
Aquarius men are weird with their emotions.
They have to build up trust with you before they let their feelings show.
But if he starts opening up and telling you about his:
- fears
- dreams
- past relationship experiences
He trusts you with his emotions.
When an Aquarius man starts letting his guard down and shows you his softer side, it means he wants you to understand who he is on an emotional level.
This goes back to the idea of him becoming emotionally vulnerable with you.
10. He Finds Time to Spend With You
Aquarius guys are busy.
They love their jobs, hobbies, and whatever else they decide to obsess over that month.
But if he makes time to speak to you, talk to you, and see you, he wants to.
Simple as that.
We all love the people that matter to us more than others. Period.
If an Aquarius man is finding time to be with you, that right there is the clearest sign.
Aquarius men value their time, so when they give it to you, you know they mean business.
Conclusion
Aquarius men can be confusing when they like you.
One minute they’re all over you and the next, they act disinterested.
Why? Because their personality is a blend of someone who’s independent, intelligent, and emotionally driven.
When you mix those three traits together, you get someone who might send mixed signals if you’re not used to their love language.
But if you really pay attention to their actions, you’ll start to understand how they operate.
Aquarius men include you in their lives, listen to what you have to say, respect your need for freedom, and open up to you on an emotional level when they want to.
Patience is key.
Aquarius men aren’t typically going to rush into anything, including showing you romantic signs of interest.
But once they develop feelings for you, you can bet that connection they create will be authentic, strong, and beautiful.
FAQ
Do Aquarius men show interest in people they like?
Yes, Aquarius men show interest by engaging you in intellectual conversations, wanting to be your friend, and asking about your opinions.
Do Aquarius men hide their feelings?
Yes, Aquarius men hide their feelings by taking their time emotionally connecting with you. They’re great at putting up walls too.
Why do Aquarius men take so long to fall in love?
Aquarius men take a long time falling in love because they need to make sure the person they like is worth their time. It’s actually quite sweet.
How can you tell if an Aquarius man is serious about you?
If an Aquarius man makes time for you, includes you in his life, and starts opening up emotionally, he’s probably serious about wanting something with you.
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