The other day, I was talking to a friend who kept smiling at his phone like an idiot. He kept doing this every few seconds while looking back at me, confused about why I was laughing.
Finally, he pulled it out and showed me.
It wasn’t crazy or anything. Literally a cute, simple text from his girlfriend.
The minute he read that text, he perked up.
His mood shifted.
He had more energy.
And the conversation we were having never quite reached the same level again.
He hadn’t even left work yet, but something about that text changed his entire day.
That’s when it hit me.
If the right text came at the right time, I could change the way anyone felt about me throughout their entire day.
Want to keep his attention when he’s busy at work?
Stop focusing on writing full paragraphs that he’ll never read.
Just focus on short texts that he’ll read between meetings that will make him smile every single time.
Texts that will make him think about you all damn day.
Let’s dive in.
Why Sending Flirty Texts During Work Is So Powerful
Work sucks.
Don’t lie to yourself. You know it’s true.
Whether he hates his job or loves it, he’s still going to be scrolling through his phone at some point.
When he sees that notification pop up from you, it stops his day in its tracks.
For a few seconds, at least.
Creating a playful emotional reaction during his workday is the best way to build a deeper emotional connection with him.
Since you aren’t physically there with him, flirty texts keep you fresh in his mind.
30 Flirty Texts for Him at Work
10 Cute and Playful Texts That’ll Make Him Smile
You don’t always need to flirt with intensity.
Sometimes, simple texts can be the best.
“If you’re reading this, I hope you’re at work and thinking about me.”
“I hope you’re at work right now stealing other girls’ kisses.”
“I hope you’re at work and wishing you were here with me.”
“The only thing getting me through work today is thinking about you.”
“Don’t work too hard at work, I need you tired when I see you.”
“I can’t wait to see you later, but I hope you have a good day at work!”
“Are you at work right now smiling because you’re thinking about me?”
“Don’t forget about me while you’re at work!”
“I’ll see you later, but I hope you have a great day at work!”
“I want you to have a good day at work so we can enjoy each other when we see each other.”
Simple. Sweet. Effective.
Read also: 105 Flirty Text Messages for Him
10 Teasing Texts That Will Freak Him Out A Little
Now it’s time to start pushing the envelope a little.
Again, don’t go full crazy slut here.
Just learn how to mentally flirt with him through your texts.
“How dare you be at work without me?”
“I wish you were at work so we could be having sex right now.”
“Bet you wish you were with me right now.”
“You better not be smiling without me.”
“How do you go to work every day without me?”
“You’re cheating on me by going to work.”
“I bet you’re having more fun at work right now than you would with me.”
“I would love to kiss those work lips of yours.”
“I can’t wait to taste your lips after you’ve been at work all day.”
“I can’t wait to see the smile on your face when you hear my voice.”
Feel him subtly hesitate for a second after reading your text.
This is sexual tension building in your relationship.
Read also: 101 Protective Boyfriend Text Messages
10 Slightly Risky Texts That Will Have Him Excited to See You
We’re crossing the boundary now.
If you want him to anticipate every word you say, it’s time to become slightly risky.
“I can’t wait to see you tonight, I have plans for you.”
“I hope you behave at work because I will tease you when I see you.”
“I can’t wait to see you after work, you know what to do.”
“Ugh, don’t forget about me while you’re at work!”
“I swear if you cheat on me with work, I will…”
“Gotta go finish work, I’ll see you later :)”
“I bet you’re dreaming about me right now.”
Later means SEX.
You better have his attention when you see him.
This creates sexual anticipation.
Timing Is More Important Than The Text Itself
You can send him the most sexy text ever, but if you send it at the wrong time, he will ignore you.
Don’t mistake this for him not being into you.
Learn his schedule.
Learn when he replies the most.
Learn when he’s most active on his phone during the day.
This is how you navigate the best times to message your partner.
Avoid Over Texting Him
If you send him 10 messages in a row, you’re overdoing it.
Flirty texts work because you create a feel-good reaction, then you let him be.
You create a gap.
That gap is what makes him wonder what else you’re doing while he’s at work.
It’s this need to know more about you that builds sexual attraction.
If you flood him with messages, you kill that.
Match His Energy Or Ever So Slightly Exceed It
If he replies with one word and you send a paragraph, you’re off balancing each other.
Playful? Be playful.
Busy? Wait for the right time.
But here’s the secret: you always want to ever so slightly exceed his energy.
He’s at a 5? Be at a 6.
Don’t exceed it by too much. Always try to be slightly higher than him.
This is emotional mind game called mirroring.
Once you master this, your connection will never be broken.
Attractiveness Comes From Confidence
You can say, word for word, everything I said in these texts.
If you’re doing it from a place of neediness, you wouldn’t come across as attractive as if you were confident.
Confidence:
Doesn’t need him to reply
Doesn’t explain herself
Doesn’t chase him
When you send texts from this state of mind, you’ll automatically come across as confident.
This is how you build real, genuine connection.
You Want Him To Feel Good When He Sees Your Name
This is the goal.
You want your texts to create happiness.
You don’t want your boy to feel bad when he sees your name.
You don’t want your girl to stress about what your message is going to say.
You want the opposite.
You want them to smile every time they see your name.
When someone can consistently make you feel good about yourself, you never want to lose that person.
Conclusion
Sending flirty texts doesn’t have to be some huge mind game.
You don’t need to say anything crazy.
You just need to say something that will make him feel something when he sees your name.
Light. Playful. Not too much.
And send it from a place of confidence, not need.
FAQs
What time should I text my boyfriend at work?
Late morning, lunch, or early afternoon works. Steer clear of first thing in the morning or right before he leaves.
How many times should I text my boyfriend at work?
Don’t text more than twice a day. Once is good too.
Should I be subtle with my texts or straight up flirt?
Start subtle. If you two are picking up, you can start becoming more flirtatious and bold with your texts.
Will sending flirty texts to my guy at work help us?
Yes! It creates attraction, emotional connection, and keeps the thrill of your relationship alive on even the busiest of days.
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